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Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Lady Murasaki » Fri Nov 02, 2018 9:44 am

Guest wrote:
Lady Murasaki wrote:
art0hur0moh wrote:On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)


Testosterone is the hormone it doesn’t increase hormones.

You were brave to even answer that worrying post


What was he saying? :scratch:
He was mistaken anyway.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Concerned guest » Wed Oct 31, 2018 2:28 pm

BUDGIE wrote:
art0hur0moh wrote:On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)


HOLY FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What exactly are you trying to say?????

I'm reading this as - and correct me if I'm wrong - that your daughter is changing how she deals with you because you have more testosterone???? eyebrow

I don't think abstaining from sex or tugging the head off it raises/lowers your test levels one bit. That's broscience.

Art’s post was worrying for me too.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Guest » Wed Oct 31, 2018 2:08 pm

Lady Murasaki wrote:
art0hur0moh wrote:On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)


Testosterone is the hormone it doesn’t increase hormones.

You were brave to even answer that worrying post

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Lady Murasaki » Sat Oct 27, 2018 11:15 pm

art0hur0moh wrote:On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)


Testosterone is the hormone it doesn’t increase hormones.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by jra » Sat Oct 27, 2018 10:31 pm

Abs wrote:
jra wrote:
Abs wrote:
Lady Murasaki wrote:
Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:


It’s terrible isn’t it? But centuries of being seen as the strong, invincible sex takes its toll when a man can’t admit to this level of vulnerability without being seen as ‘not being man enough’. Whereas women can talk about it without that fear.



It is terrible and saddens me to no end, because if not for their unwillingness to talk about it, my son might still be alive.


It's a bit like men don't like going to the GP/doctor, but when I had blood in my urine (sorry if TMI) a few months ago, it was a wake up call. In the meantime I've been for umpteen tests and scans and found out a lot about myself, plus potential future problems and intend to get myself checked for this, that and everything on a regular basis now.

I've had very good service down this way with the GPs and specialists, but don't hesitate to change if you are unhappy.


Yes, and that's about it when men finally go after they get the wake-up call, sometimes by then, it's too late. Glad you decided to go.


Thanks Abs.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Abs » Sat Oct 27, 2018 10:22 pm

jra wrote:
Abs wrote:
Lady Murasaki wrote:
Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:


It’s terrible isn’t it? But centuries of being seen as the strong, invincible sex takes its toll when a man can’t admit to this level of vulnerability without being seen as ‘not being man enough’. Whereas women can talk about it without that fear.



It is terrible and saddens me to no end, because if not for their unwillingness to talk about it, my son might still be alive.


It's a bit like men don't like going to the GP/doctor, but when I had blood in my urine (sorry if TMI) a few months ago, it was a wake up call. In the meantime I've been for umpteen tests and scans and found out a lot about myself, plus potential future problems and intend to get myself checked for this, that and everything on a regular basis now.

I've had very good service down this way with the GPs and specialists, but don't hesitate to change if you are unhappy.


Yes, and that's about it when men finally go after they get the wake-up call, sometimes by then, it's too late. Glad you decided to go.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Ray of Sunshine » Sat Oct 27, 2018 8:58 pm

Holly wrote:On a more serious note, I do think men have it a lot harder these days. Just trying to ask a woman out can be quite a dangerous exercise. If she likes the bloke ok, no problem, if she doesn't, he runs the risk of being accused of sexual harassment and could be fired from his job, barred from a pub/club or even beaten up.
No wonder men are too scared these days to approach women...That's why websites like Tinder are doing a killing...sometimes literally :ooer:

I truly would not want to be a bloke...no way jose!


It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia did an episode on it.

They joked that sexual harassment depended on the man's looks and that women don't claim sexual harassment if a good-looking man compliments them on their dress but they may if an ugly one does.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by BUDGIE » Sat Oct 27, 2018 7:43 pm

art0hur0moh wrote:On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)


HOLY FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What exactly are you trying to say?????

I'm reading this as - and correct me if I'm wrong - that your daughter is changing how she deals with you because you have more testosterone???? eyebrow

I don't think abstaining from sex or tugging the head off it raises/lowers your test levels one bit. That's broscience.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by jra » Sat Oct 27, 2018 7:12 pm

Abs wrote:
Lady Murasaki wrote:
Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:


It’s terrible isn’t it? But centuries of being seen as the strong, invincible sex takes its toll when a man can’t admit to this level of vulnerability without being seen as ‘not being man enough’. Whereas women can talk about it without that fear.



It is terrible and saddens me to no end, because if not for their unwillingness to talk about it, my son might still be alive.


It's a bit like men don't like going to the GP/doctor, but when I had blood in my urine (sorry if TMI) a few months ago, it was a wake up call. In the meantime I've been for umpteen tests and scans and found out a lot about myself, plus potential future problems and intend to get myself checked for this, that and everything on a regular basis now.

I've had very good service down this way with the GPs and specialists, but don't hesitate to change if you are unhappy.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Abs » Sat Oct 27, 2018 7:00 pm

Lady Murasaki wrote:
Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:


It’s terrible isn’t it? But centuries of being seen as the strong, invincible sex takes its toll when a man can’t admit to this level of vulnerability without being seen as ‘not being man enough’. Whereas women can talk about it without that fear.



It is terrible and saddens me to no end, because if not for their unwillingness to talk about it, my son might still be alive.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by art0hur0moh » Sat Oct 27, 2018 5:40 pm

On a sexual note. Testosterone increases feel good hormones. After a month or two refraing from abusing oneself, you will start to notice slight changes in how Women react and relate. One thing I have noticed with my daughter is elaborate games. As Girls become older the games mature ( The latter is still theoretical. Though participation I consider fundamental?)

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Lady Murasaki » Sat Oct 27, 2018 4:57 pm

Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:


It’s terrible isn’t it? But centuries of being seen as the strong, invincible sex takes its toll when a man can’t admit to this level of vulnerability without being seen as ‘not being man enough’. Whereas women can talk about it without that fear.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by LordRaven » Sat Oct 27, 2018 10:45 am

jra wrote:
Holly wrote:
Lady Murasaki wrote:Surely getting knocked back is nothing new for males. It’s gone on since time began, why is it considered more humiliating now?
People overthink nowadays instead of feeling their way through.



But that's just it...I bet it was always humiliating to blokes to get knocked back. The thing is, it's more brutal these days. How would YOU like to get knocked back? Say for example you see a guy you fancy, you try to start a conversation and he tells you to fuck off, how would you feel? ...cos after all, you were feeling your way through :gigglesnshit:


Funny isn't it when you tell the story the man gets sympathy. When I told a very similar story, I get years of flack for it.


Don't take it personally jra, you put the target on your back so expect flak.

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by LordRaven » Sat Oct 27, 2018 10:41 am

Abs wrote:Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves.
:bawlin:


Right :yikes: :doomed:

Re: Sometimes it's hard to be a Man

Post by Abs » Sat Oct 27, 2018 6:57 am

Unfortunately, men can't or won't admit to sexual abuse, so they never get the help they need, so they try to live out their fucked up life until they can't no more and kill themselves. :bawlin:

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