by Abs » Thu Aug 23, 2018 9:56 am
art0hur0moh wrote:Gabby wrote:Abs wrote:Bella wrote:Abs wrote:Everyday I hope or I will melt.
He's 18, he's going to Japan (he's been there before alone) Japan is very safe and then on onto Vietnam and maybe Cambodia.
I'm sure he'll be fine and having fun whilst I am a nervous wreck
Hang in there, I can imagine how hard it must be to you.
I was thinking how much you enjoyed your poetry, do you still write any?
Also you were good at making games threads
I haven't written in quite awhile cept the poems I wrote for my dad, and my son. Yeah I was still doing my games elsewhere but with all the stuff i've been through I just didn't feel like doing it anymore. Nothing interests me, nothing matters I just don't care. I just want to join my son.
Oh Abs, my heart breaks for you..... you must speak to others experiencing the same as you.... don’t face it alone, you’re not on your own, you could gain some comfort by doing so
I am not entirelly sure speaking with people who have the same experience is always beneficial. As they say missery loves company. I think it better to find someone you have a rapport with.
To me, especially after just reading that ABS and Kizzie have similar experience. I couldn't imagine, nor do I want to :( I got adrenaline rushes simply seeing them fall over.
Do the two of you talk with each other? Seems you would be able to talk with each without actually feeling compelled.
If you don't mind me asking. What age ranges?
My friend who was a very outgoing person before we left SA to here and they Australia. Committed suicide at 21. I think my godfather blamed himself, and godmother never really came to terms with it. I never brought up the topic and they never opened up about it. We did alot of things together, and they still have an older son and younger daughter. There was always something to do with them. I learned alot about life, personal care and responsibility.
Take care, ABS Kezzie[/quote]
I'm sorry I didn't see this before now art0hur0moh. I came to the conclusion that talking to someone who went through the same thing is not beneficial, at least not for me. If you and meant do me and Kizzie talk? I do not know her and this was the first time I think we been in a thread together. If you were referring to my age range I'm 61 and if you were referring to what age my son was when he left this world he was 29. I think most parents blame themselves, I know I do. And like your Godmother, I know I won't ever come to terms with it.
[quote="art0hur0moh"][quote="Gabby"][quote="Abs"][quote="Bella"][quote="Abs"]
Everyday I hope or I will melt.
He's 18, he's going to Japan (he's been there before alone) Japan is very safe and then on onto Vietnam and maybe Cambodia.
I'm sure he'll be fine and having fun whilst I am a nervous wreck :bawlin:[/quote]
Hang in there, I can imagine how hard it must be to you.[/quote]
I was thinking how much you enjoyed your poetry, do you still write any?
Also you were good at making games threads :smilin:[/quote]
I haven't written in quite awhile cept the poems I wrote for my dad, and my son. Yeah I was still doing my games elsewhere but with all the stuff i've been through I just didn't feel like doing it anymore. Nothing interests me, nothing matters I just don't care. I just want to join my son.[/quote]
Oh Abs, my heart breaks for you..... you must speak to others experiencing the same as you.... don’t face it alone, you’re not on your own, you could gain some comfort by doing so :wubbers:[/quote]
I am not entirelly sure speaking with people who have the same experience is always beneficial. As they say missery loves company. I think it better to find someone you have a rapport with.
To me, especially after just reading that ABS and Kizzie have similar experience. I couldn't imagine, nor do I want to :( I got adrenaline rushes simply seeing them fall over.
Do the two of you talk with each other? Seems you would be able to talk with each without actually feeling compelled.
If you don't mind me asking. What age ranges?
My friend who was a very outgoing person before we left SA to here and they Australia. Committed suicide at 21. I think my godfather blamed himself, and godmother never really came to terms with it. I never brought up the topic and they never opened up about it. We did alot of things together, and they still have an older son and younger daughter. There was always something to do with them. I learned alot about life, personal care and responsibility.
Take care, ABS Kezzie[/quote]
[color=#800040]I'm sorry I didn't see this before now art0hur0moh. I came to the conclusion that talking to someone who went through the same thing is not beneficial, at least not for me. If you and meant do me and Kizzie talk? I do not know her and this was the first time I think we been in a thread together. If you were referring to my age range I'm 61 and if you were referring to what age my son was when he left this world he was 29. I think most parents blame themselves, I know I do. And like your Godmother, I know I won't ever come to terms with it.[/color]