by Markey mark » Tue Aug 29, 2017 6:12 pm
Social services will do their best to Forster a child out that meets the child needs , that was the old golden rule , what doesn't exist with some departments for many reasons , trouble with places like tower hamlets and other inner city centres , being white your not a majority , properly most in social services are Muslim and most foster parents probably are different race and religion . I know for a fact as I have dealt with them most social services staff are mainly Christians , mainly white and black staff ,and they foster muslims kids to christains family's, it works both ways , main reason shortage of Forster carers. As for muslims teens in the care of Christian's families, I personally know of a few that has real trouble with their Forster kids , especially with older Muslim boys , they find it hard in having a woman telling them what to do , when I used to foster my main job was to care , i had house rules and if rules were broken they would get punished i.e. Pocket money or got them to do more house duties, with faith and culture I left it to the Forster kids what road they want to take . There is a big problem regarding faith and faith of Forster parents , and lot of cases the two doesn't mix , myself part blame social services in many areas , many members of staff think they know best for a child and it's , our way or no way attitude . And of course there's really shit Forster carers too so many get through the vetting .