Dealing With Death

[Star]

Thank you everyone x Dean I was like your sister went every day .it has helped me sorry for all the upset you have had in your life too . Now it's getting my mam over her treatment .but at min I'm feeling a calm and want to go to work today

However long you’ve had, it’s still a huge shock when they go. You are never prepared at the end.
It’s a blessing as your dad isn’t suffering the pain anymore.
Only you know how you feel and if you want to work today then go.
My heart goes out to you & your family over your dads passing. Stay strong and I hope your mum
gets well soon xx

[Kat]

Thank you everyone x Dean I was like your sister went every day .it has helped me sorry for all the upset you have had in your life too . Now it's getting my mam over her treatment .but at min I'm feeling a calm and want to go to work today

However long you’ve had, it’s still a huge shock when they go. You are never prepared at the end.
It’s a blessing as your dad isn’t suffering the pain anymore.
Only you know how you feel and if you want to work today then go.
My heart goes out to you & your family over your dads passing. Stay strong and I hope your mum
gets well soon xx

Thanks star x you have been such a good friend as have my friends on cw x

[measurer]

The calm is because you know he is out of any pain he had, as you had been seeing him all the time. Work will probably help you re-focus and ground you. I hope you don't run yourself ragged now with your mum - but, she's your mum and it's what we do for loved ones.
My sympathies to you and your family, Kat. x

[megaera]

Sorry about your dad Kat

[Kat]

Thanks meg and mes x I am ok me s .it's true i think I have grieved for months .there's a palliative pathway team at woek and they have had a little chat with me I can go see them when I want .early hrs this morning my middle lad had a bit of a melt down so I went through to his house he is sad he didn't see him and say good but but we went through photos of lads engagement with dad on happy times

[Punk]

I had the anniversary of my dad passing last week and have my life partner's passing next week. 49 weeks off from any grief.