jra wrote:banana chewits wrote:if you had to see your very new partner's parents/family over christmas, how much would you spend on gifts for them? would you get them individual presents or something like a big box of choccies to share?
Nothing really. Giving gifts in this case is a form of bribery in order to get the parents acceptance. But, for the sake of peace the usual stuff.
I would not see it as bribery, I would see it as more courteous especially if you were meeting at their house