Thanks hun. I think it's just that this is only a forum where lots come to vent in, but it's not real life as in real life there are far, far more things to worry about. This is but a playground for many and for others it is their life and they take their pain or sorrow - whatever it is - and use it to, well I don't know - troll perhaps as it gives them a buzz to try to denigrate people to make themselves feel better?
You only learn this with great age!