xtras1 wrote:McAz wrote:So taking the piss out of someone's bereavement and expecting them to apologize is control freakery? What gutter world do you live in?
Just can't stop yourself can You, you ever thought of Vam in this? Bringing the subject up again!
You assume I live in a gutter world? I'd rather that then live in your, snidey, malicious, fake, patronising world.
I'm not replying to anything to do with vams loss again, you wanna slag me of use another thread
But
I didn't bring the subject up - except for replying to you and Cleo I have made just 2 posts since the disgraceful incident...
McAz wrote:Who here has "milked" bereavement?
McAz wrote: I haven't noticed anyone "milk" bereavement. I know of at least 5 people on here who have lost very close loved ones, and the experience of which has impacted upon their lives to a terrible degree. If they mention them from time to time I don't think they are "milking" it (though let's be honest, we all need some help and a kind word now and then). I think "there but for the grace of god, I hope I am able to cope as well come that terrible time" - and love and prayers to all who suffer. And if they need some attention at times, so fucking what - no skin off my nose, or anyone else's?
There are times when cynicism and pisstaking is appropriate in forum life but the loss of a loved one; a child, a husband, a wife, isn't one of them. No-one should occupy the gutter on this, we are better than that - everyone is, and anyone can be.
...careful now, xtras, your agenda's showing.