Lady Murasaki wrote:
Are there really any mates on forums? Maybe that's the problem? Mates change so frequently I can't keep up.
Yes, I can sense your consternation. It's not the first time you've mentioned how perplexed you are, whilst simultaneously seeming insufferably patronising towards others. Yet, I'm sure I've seen passing references to your own ...indiscretions?... with a certain cyber gentleman. I could be wrong, of course
But all that is by the by... how about this for a novel concept: simply avoid reading, or contributing to, what are arguably just 2 or 3 contentious threads in the Arms. That way, your delicate sensibilities are likely to remain unaffected