art0hur0moh wrote:Hi ya Nucks : ) sounds like you have become an alarm clock that is put on snooze. Imply you will have trouble arriving after ten. It is convenient for you, any later disrupts your day. The duration and consistency may give the impression she is the one doing you the favor, that may be how it started? And I can understand the helpfull hand given at the time and the loyalty you would have. If that is not the case then it is likely you felt you would be helping her. The question you should probably be asking yourself is, would you visit if money wasn't part of the equasion? With money involved do you think it deminishes a honest relationship? You could both be missing out on a great freindship?
Cleaning and DIY are seperate thingsNucks wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Hi ya Nucks : ) sounds like you have become an alarm clock that is put on snooze. Imply you will have trouble arriving after ten. It is convenient for you, any later disrupts your day. The duration and consistency may give the impression she is the one doing you the favor, that may be how it started? And I can understand the helpfull hand given at the time and the loyalty you would have. If that is not the case then it is likely you felt you would be helping her. The question you should probably be asking yourself is, would you visit if money wasn't part of the equasion? With money involved do you think it deminishes a honest relationship? You could both be missing out on a great freindship?
would you visit if money wasn't part of the equasion? With money involved do you think it deminishes a honest relationship?
That’s a good point, and thank you for pointing it out. I don’t think I would just pop in every week for tea and a chin wag and help change the bedding etc just to be nice, and that probably doesn’t sound nice, but I do housecleaning as a side job so it would feel weird to provide that service regularly for someone and not charge. She’s not a charity case by any means and she probably could afford to pay the going rate. I wonder if I’m trying to convince myself that I want rid of that job for a different reason than inconvenience. I do like her but feel like she’s taking the mick a little sometimes. She started bringing up the topic of stripping the wallpaper off in the upstairs bedroom, but that is not what I do. Cleaning and DIY are separate things.
Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
I'm a not very well oap but I'm still driving still getting out and about when my knackered back lets me. Music making has slowed right down because sitting here at the desk can get very difficult.
I've tried doing it lying down with a laptop with a synthesizer attached but that isn't easy either. Can't concentrate like that and I end up falling asleep.
Guest wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
I'm a not very well oap but I'm still driving still getting out and about when my knackered back lets me. Music making has slowed right down because sitting here at the desk can get very difficult.
I've tried doing it lying down with a laptop with a synthesizer attached but that isn't easy either. Can't concentrate like that and I end up falling asleep.
That explains all your crap posts, you're sleep posting
Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
I'm a not very well oap but I'm still driving still getting out and about when my knackered back lets me. Music making has slowed right down because sitting here at the desk can get very difficult.
I've tried doing it lying down with a laptop with a synthesizer attached but that isn't easy either. Can't concentrate like that and I end up falling asleep.
art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
I'm a not very well oap but I'm still driving still getting out and about when my knackered back lets me. Music making has slowed right down because sitting here at the desk can get very difficult.
I've tried doing it lying down with a laptop with a synthesizer attached but that isn't easy either. Can't concentrate like that and I end up falling asleep.
I have acquired an aversion to sitting. Got a stool that has foot a rest. I tend to hook feet behind and under foot rest and support my weight on the back of my thighs often. It helps straighten the back and engage abdominal muscles which are suposed to work in tandum with back muscles. Streching using some specific yoga poses I have found helpfull. If you have injured your back and not used anti biotics you might want to try that? A study I read in the times in 2013, explained how Bacteria from the cheek enters the blood stream. Brushing teeth with nylon brushs can cut the gum line. Natural fibres dont burn or abrade soft tissue as much. How are you with standing for long periods of time?
Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:art0hur0moh wrote:Rolluplostinspace wrote:I'm not doing too bad considering Arty.
I'm adapting more and more to my circumstances and limitations.
Any pointers? Was listening to Mr Arnold Schwarzenegger five rules yesterday. An excellent example of a Camel passing through the eye of a needle. Nice one spaceman. How's the music?
I'm a not very well oap but I'm still driving still getting out and about when my knackered back lets me. Music making has slowed right down because sitting here at the desk can get very difficult.
I've tried doing it lying down with a laptop with a synthesizer attached but that isn't easy either. Can't concentrate like that and I end up falling asleep.
I have acquired an aversion to sitting. Got a stool that has foot a rest. I tend to hook feet behind and under foot rest and support my weight on the back of my thighs often. It helps straighten the back and engage abdominal muscles which are suposed to work in tandum with back muscles. Streching using some specific yoga poses I have found helpfull. If you have injured your back and not used anti biotics you might want to try that? A study I read in the times in 2013, explained how Bacteria from the cheek enters the blood stream. Brushing teeth with nylon brushs can cut the gum line. Natural fibres dont burn or abrade soft tissue as much. How are you with standing for long periods of time?
I have tumours on my spinal cord which give me multiple problems. They aint going to kill me cos they're benign but they affect all my nerves below my rib cage.
Some days I bounce out of bed thinking there's nowt wrong with me and always having been very active I start getting active .... slowly. I can't last long. No way round it.
Lots of opium.
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