DS and DTV Part 59

[Vam]

Re caring, I work harder now, caring for my OH than I ever did when I got a living wage. Because I am getting a meagre state pension, I am not entitled to carers allowance. OH gets higher rate AA, he has dementia and is unable to walk, I am washing bedding and pyjamas every day. I am saving the government £k's, but they are not willing to give me anything for doing so.
Dementia is the cruellest condition, it gradually robs you of the person you have spent your life with.

Sorry for the rant and going off topic.

Just....total admiration, and respect.
Please come talk whenever you feel the need to. There's pretty much always someone around


(a little bit of perspective amid all the madness here...)

[Guest]

hellllloooo

So, did you have the manners or class to even acknowledge that post of mine, Jayne - if only to just to tell me to fuck off?

Clearly not. Too busy scrabbling around like a Pound Shop Miss Marple, busting a gut trying to out people, and asking Guests whether I've "mellowed over the years" - desperately hoping for some juicy snippet of goss about me, right? So transparent....

Like I said up there, I don't usually give up on folks I've always gotten along with. That no longer applies to you, fwiw. I'm done pandering to your ego, or trying to pacify you for the sake of harmony.

What a fucking neurotic, paranoid piece of work you've turned out to be over the last couple of days, Jayne All bets and niceties are now off. Go play your divisive games - and wail about sodding "cliques" - with someone who gives a shit.

Manners or class, coming from you after your antics the last couple of days? That post is just more smiling assassin bullshit and wasn't worth a reply. What do you expect me to say when you've called me via Happy all the things you have that wouldn't turn into a childish squabble. I'm a grown up so I tried to politely and classily to avoid it, have you been waiting all evening for me to take the bait, stepping it up with this latest onslaught because me and your pals had actually exchanged some pleasant posts for a change. Oooh, can't have bonding. I avoid an argument, the mood starts to lift and here you are again a point of no return post. Tell you what , I'll meet you part way with discussion, not meaningless insults

I'm going with my ealier guess that you were acting out of a fear of threat because you're right, I am VERY perceptive but at least you actually are saying it like it is instead of continuing to bait me into throwing down the gauntlet. Could have worked better for you, the outing accusation doesn't really work because I've already commented on your baiting little 'accidental typos' and didn't do it your failure of a way Lol, getting gossip about you I'm paranoid that question opened the gates for expansion on the compliment I had already paid you - and it came. If I wanted to know about you I don't need to rely on anyone else for it, it'll all be there in the darkest corners, I'd just have to look.

Stomping round the boards trying to set the tone and have your opinion be the only one that counts. Dropping little warnings that you're a force to be reckoned with.

I'm actually quite proud to admit that I once reduced her to an apoplectic gibbering mess (on that old forum).

Real classy luv and not the words of a bully at all. I doubt you managed to do anything of the sort, you've made more than enough enemies over the years and they'll still square up to you. I might have given you the benefit of the doubt but I'm sure they can see through the recent charm offensive and newly polished halo routine.

Oh and btw, (now you've issued your little 'you and I are through' speech ) your little paddie about being called Jane Doh, the speed you tried to shut that down with the deflective supportive sneering and high fiving about gibbering guest. OTT, hell yes.

Yeah...especially the time when she kept on accusing Jane Doh of being me. Very incisive, that

Nice attempt at some PR spin there, Guesty. But nah, Nes is a barely literate moron.

Didn't they also accuse you of being someone else? No, that was Jane doh too and just YOUR slip of the tongue when you couldn't tell the difference between yourself and Jane. When people believe some of the crazy shit like fridges your slip of tongue was very unfortunate and incisive of you. Who's the moron again?

Eh?

I'm sorry but, seriously, what the frick are you going on about? My "slip of the tongue"...? " Fridges"...?

If you had posted in Chinese, I would have understood that ^^^ better. From the little I can decipher, though, it seems you're mistaking me for someone else. Go figure

I can certainly answer your last question: Nes

Oh come on Vam, you must remember that time you forgot who you were and thought you were Jane Doh for a minute. easily done. I forget who I am alllll the time!

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Ooh yeah - she called me Can, too
You? Thought it was Jane Doh she called it?
Pedant alert...

Yep, you've tried really really hard the last couple of days to make me look bad - sorry, but I think its you has come off worse for it and I've shown more class in my little finger than you could ever imagine having. I've slipped, but fire with fire and all that.

You are showing yourself to be an absolute loon

[Junglejayne]

You're completely innocent of all this of course. One post and I'll match it. Or you can choose not to play the cards Vam so subtly dealt and project all this onto me. If you genuinely believe opinion is subjective Happy wouldn't be such a target would she?

It was her attitude, not her opinion. This has been pointed out several times

Exactly.

Yet despite the fact that many, many people clearly share same opinion about Nes (especially on DS), Jayne is now not-so-subtly trying to shift the blame onto me for turning people against her

It's not like others had eyes in their heads, and were able to see for themselves what an obsessive fricking nightmare she was throughout all those countless threads.

Loads of people disliked Happy's posts because she was often a bitch. You'd have to be blind not to see it. I imagine Jayne is pally with her which is why she's so desperately defending her.

Who the hell cares? Some people like her and some don't. I don't see why Happy should be immune to criticism especially when Jayne is perfectly happy to criticise others.

Someone muddied the waters slightly when they said I was her. Not as easy to brush off the unwarranted and quite vicious insults when effectively, you are being associated to them. I have no need to distance myself, or take a different tact and not challenge it or join in with the bitchin, I'm made of stronger stuff than that.

[jp761]

Just going to add my endorsement of all the things that have been said, in support of Psidgaf.

[Vam]

.........Have we got to Part 60 yet?

[Guest]

Odd isn't it. Vam makes the accusation and suddenly theres all these pages of squabbling about someones posts from months ago.

Another accident?

I mentioned HappyNes and then the squabbling started because a bunch of posters think she's great and a bunch of posters think she's a twat. Vam asked the question about you being her in the middle of it, she didn't start it

Did you get that, Jayne?? Or does it need to be repeated another half a dozen times?

I sure as hell didn't start all the shite you've been rolling out. But I'm more than happy to finish it. Let's leave it at that (unless its your intention to carry on chipping away at me, of course)

Aw but you did, and you've kept poking for days. Clique or no clique, this is down to you.

[Stooo]

:thud: .........Have we got to Part 60 yet?

We tend to split after page 101 back to 100 to add some context, it's not a hard and fast rule but it keeps things neater.

[Mash]

You're completely innocent of all this of course. One post and I'll match it. Or you can choose not to play the cards Vam so subtly dealt and project all this onto me. If you genuinely believe opinion is subjective Happy wouldn't be such a target would she?

It was her attitude, not her opinion. This has been pointed out several times

Exactly.

Yet despite the fact that many, many people clearly share same opinion about Nes (especially on DS), Jayne is now not-so-subtly trying to shift the blame onto me for turning people against her

It's not like others had eyes in their heads, and were able to see for themselves what an obsessive fricking nightmare she was throughout all those countless threads.

Loads of people disliked Happy's posts because she was often a bitch. You'd have to be blind not to see it. I imagine Jayne is pally with her which is why she's so desperately defending her.

Who the hell cares? Some people like her and some don't. I don't see why Happy should be immune to criticism especially when Jayne is perfectly happy to criticise others.

Someone muddied the waters slightly when they said I was her. Not as easy to brush off the unwarranted and quite vicious insults when effectively, you are being associated to them. I have no need to distance myself, or take a different tact and not challenge it or join in with the bitchin, I'm made of stronger stuff than that.

As far as I remember, Vam asked if you were Happy, she didn't say you were her.

You are strangely blind to her faults though and so defensive when someone says something negative about her.

[Vam]

:thud: .........Have we got to Part 60 yet?

We tend to split after page 101 back to 100 to add some context, it's not a hard and fast rule but it keeps things neater.

I knew that! But thanks.

Just wishing a tiny bit of my life away, is all....

[Junglejayne]

Re caring, I work harder now, caring for my OH than I ever did when I got a living wage. Because I am getting a meagre state pension, I am not entitled to carers allowance. OH gets higher rate AA, he has dementia and is unable to walk, I am washing bedding and pyjamas every day. I am saving the government £k's, but they are not willing to give me anything for doing so.
Dementia is the cruellest condition, it gradually robs you of the person you have spent your life with.

Sorry for the rant and going off topic.

Don't apologise. I've been there with a parent and its the hardest thing, but as adults we make a life away from mum and dad so have other people to support with it. It must be incredibly lonely to lose the person who you would usually turn to just when you need them the most. There are support groups out there, reach out if you haven't already. Hugs xx

[Junglejayne]

He wasn't fibbing when he said it was just clever use of countouring and surgical tape, was he?

I thought that Lambert was female.

She could be in which case, the contouring would be extra impressive.

Its the camera, 5 inches

[Mash]

I've shown more class in my little finger than you could ever imagine having. :

You're coming across as a bit hysterical to be honest.

[Guest]

You are showing yourself to be an absolute loon

Bollocks, that was a bloody good summary.

[NastyNickers]

I'd just like to clarify that this post of mine:

Oh come on Vam, you must remember that time you forgot who you were and thought you were Jane Doh for a minute. easily done. I forget who I am alllll the time!

Was just a whole load of sarcasm. I don't recall Vam ever thinking she was Jane Doh. I do recall, and have found, HappyNes calling Jane Doh 'Vam' though. And also Cam which, given HappyNes' propensity to typo, I presumed was supposed to be Vam.
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Its very clear, you understand perfectly well,
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and I understand that this is what you do now and youve done it a few times in this thread. Play a bit thick, bait a bit so theres a back and forth exchange then therel be a 'poor me' post. or something like this
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Your not a stupid woman Vam, and nether am I.

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Cam, I replied to you not quoted you. reread it if confused you

[Junglejayne]

As far as I remember, Vam asked if you were Happy, she didn't say you were her.

You are strangely blind to her faults though and so defensive when someone says something negative about her.

I don't think Vam needs you to do any desperate hair splitting on her behalf. United front and all that crap but she's a big girl and neither you or her can take back what she tried to do there.