Guest wrote:You need a short personal statement, a couple of lines. SoI am a highly motivated individual who ....
Then your qualifications
Skills - whatever skills you think you have, and perhaps where you gained these skills. So for customer service skills, you could put about gaining these skills through helping customers at your place of working and providing excellent customer service. Bullet point these skills
IT skills - which IT products you are familiar with, always useful if you go for admin positions. Bulet point again
Hobbies - List them with commas in between
References - 2 of them, or put down references available upon request.
Guest wrote:Guest wrote:You need a short personal statement, a couple of lines. SoI am a highly motivated individual who ....
Then your qualifications
Skills - whatever skills you think you have, and perhaps where you gained these skills. So for customer service skills, you could put about gaining these skills through helping customers at your place of working and providing excellent customer service. Bullet point these skills
IT skills - which IT products you are familiar with, always useful if you go for admin positions. Bulet point again
Hobbies - List them with commas in between
References - 2 of them, or put down references available upon request.
Sam, this is quite useful, HOWEVER, never, ever begin a sentence with SO. Naughty guest!
samthefootball wrote:Thank you for the information guest. It will help me out massively I think.
Post 3 in this thread he's making good progress with HIS mental health professionals. Evidently he is getting real life help. Maybe you should have read the thread first. Also I'm pretty sure Holly pretty much called time on this thread. And now Sam isn't really allowed to reply in this thread anymore or any other similar thread, he'll probably get banned if he does. There is nothing wrong with most of your advice, but seeing as Sam's right of reply is gone right now in these type of threads, maybe you shouldn't have posted.THAWNE wrote:Yet another topic from you Sam, no doubt one that'll eventually turn hostile like most of your other topics; your posts have a tendency to start off nice, and then subsequently derail into abuse, ultimately showing the rest of us what sort of person you truly are. I know people who have disabilities, both physical and mental, and they're not bad people. You however don't appear to be a nice person. Mental disability or not, anyone who abuses their mother, and wishes their family (in your case, your step brother) dead is a horrible person. You can't blame that on your disability.
You're always making posts where you ask for help, whilst seemingly not wanting to help yourself. You've often posted about how life isn't fair; it's not fair for most people, yet the majority of us just suck it up and carry on, making do the best we can with who we are, what we've got, and the opportunities (or not) that are presented us. You're a constant moaner, and if I didn't know any better, I'd say that you expect all your problems to be given to you on a golden plate.
Lets look at your accomplishments, shall we?
* You hate your father and/or step father (possibly both)?
* You hate your brother, and have wished him dead on more than one occasion; you've even shared the desire to punch his lights out on multiple occasions.
* You would outright ignore any children your step brother had in the future (you made this comment on a DS post once).
* You have stated your reluctance to socialise with older people, or other people with disabilities because your incorrectly think you're somehow superior to them. You're not.
* You don't want to socialise with the majority of people; you're only looking for a girlfriend, and one that is perfect. That isn't going to happen.
* You've been thrown out of college because of your violent nature.
* You've lost your job because of your violent nature.
...and by your own admission;
* You haven't got much money,
* You don't drive or cycle,
* You've got spots,
* You've got eczema,
* You have a micro penis (I'm not sure how relevant this is, but you've brought it up often enough, so it must be of importance)
Even now you're here asking for websites that can help you. You don't need websites. You need a better mental attitude, and the help of actual people in a face to face environment. An internet website is not remotely going to help you with your condition. You mentioned your other posts on the mental health forum are often ignored. If you post half as much pitiful nonsense over there as you do here, frequently complaining about matters that you don't even try to help yourself with, it's no wonder other people are going to ignore you.
What you need Samuel is professional help in a one to one setting. People with your conditions do and can cope with it if they're willing to make the effort and recognise that the first step begins with them. If you want to sort your life out, you are going to have to make that very conscious decision and go from there. Asking people on forums why girls don't smile at you, or why your brother has a better life than you, or why you have a small tinkle isn't remotely helpful to your state of mind or being.
jp761 wrote:Post 3 in this thread he's making good progress with HIS mental health professionals. Evidently he is getting real life help. Maybe you should have read the thread first. Also I'm pretty sure Holly pretty much called time on this thread. And now Sam isn't really allowed to reply in this thread anymore or any other similar thread, he'll probably get banned if he does. There is nothing wrong with most of your advice, but seeing as Sam's right of reply is gone right now in these type of threads, maybe you shouldn't have posted.THAWNE wrote:Yet another topic from you Sam, no doubt one that'll eventually turn hostile like most of your other topics; your posts have a tendency to start off nice, and then subsequently derail into abuse, ultimately showing the rest of us what sort of person you truly are. I know people who have disabilities, both physical and mental, and they're not bad people. You however don't appear to be a nice person. Mental disability or not, anyone who abuses their mother, and wishes their family (in your case, your step brother) dead is a horrible person. You can't blame that on your disability.
You're always making posts where you ask for help, whilst seemingly not wanting to help yourself. You've often posted about how life isn't fair; it's not fair for most people, yet the majority of us just suck it up and carry on, making do the best we can with who we are, what we've got, and the opportunities (or not) that are presented us. You're a constant moaner, and if I didn't know any better, I'd say that you expect all your problems to be given to you on a golden plate.
Lets look at your accomplishments, shall we?
* You hate your father and/or step father (possibly both)?
* You hate your brother, and have wished him dead on more than one occasion; you've even shared the desire to punch his lights out on multiple occasions.
* You would outright ignore any children your step brother had in the future (you made this comment on a DS post once).
* You have stated your reluctance to socialise with older people, or other people with disabilities because your incorrectly think you're somehow superior to them. You're not.
* You don't want to socialise with the majority of people; you're only looking for a girlfriend, and one that is perfect. That isn't going to happen.
* You've been thrown out of college because of your violent nature.
* You've lost your job because of your violent nature.
...and by your own admission;
* You haven't got much money,
* You don't drive or cycle,
* You've got spots,
* You've got eczema,
* You have a micro penis (I'm not sure how relevant this is, but you've brought it up often enough, so it must be of importance)
Even now you're here asking for websites that can help you. You don't need websites. You need a better mental attitude, and the help of actual people in a face to face environment. An internet website is not remotely going to help you with your condition. You mentioned your other posts on the mental health forum are often ignored. If you post half as much pitiful nonsense over there as you do here, frequently complaining about matters that you don't even try to help yourself with, it's no wonder other people are going to ignore you.
What you need Samuel is professional help in a one to one setting. People with your conditions do and can cope with it if they're willing to make the effort and recognise that the first step begins with them. If you want to sort your life out, you are going to have to make that very conscious decision and go from there. Asking people on forums why girls don't smile at you, or why your brother has a better life than you, or why you have a small tinkle isn't remotely helpful to your state of mind or being.
jp761 wrote:Post 3 in this thread he's making good progress with HIS mental health professionals. Evidently he is getting real life help. Maybe you should have read the thread first. Also I'm pretty sure Holly pretty much called time on this thread. And now Sam isn't really allowed to reply in this thread anymore or any other similar thread, he'll probably get banned if he does. There is nothing wrong with most of your advice, but seeing as Sam's right of reply is gone right now in these type of threads, maybe you shouldn't have posted.
Yeah not the best place for the kind of stuff Sam wants to talk about. Most on here probably agree on that particular point.Stooo wrote:jp761 wrote:Post 3 in this thread he's making good progress with HIS mental health professionals. Evidently he is getting real life help. Maybe you should have read the thread first. Also I'm pretty sure Holly pretty much called time on this thread. And now Sam isn't really allowed to reply in this thread anymore or any other similar thread, he'll probably get banned if he does. There is nothing wrong with most of your advice, but seeing as Sam's right of reply is gone right now in these type of threads, maybe you shouldn't have posted.
Sam can reply, this isn't the forum for sensible advice or attentionwhoring.
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